FWIW, I have heard some of the same stuff from W. Remaining here and continuing to DB to be the best H/F/person I can be and still hoping that the fog lifts @ some point.
Me-48,W-51 M-22,T-24 S- 18,16,9 Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork