BeingMe, Unfortunately, I understand how you feel. The lies just keep on coming and are so natural for them when they are in mlc. I would venture to guess that he put the change of address in and didn't want to fess up. He never realized that they would contact him about it.
If you are thinking of leaving, where would you go? Do you already have some place in mind?
You've been doing so well w/his craziness, please take care of yourself and don't allow his craziness to drive you insane.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
