I hope I can maintain my boundaries - because if I don't I'll be even worse off than before. The PMA thing seems to come and go like the wind.
KML, he doesn't count, he has a "betting strategy". He's not really out to "cheat" as I understand it.... he just doesn't believe in "random" and says there must be a pattern. I have a different philosophy.
Yesterday went pretty much as anticipated. H is still doing his own breakfast and lunch. I did make a family dinner last night so included him. It was actually one the better dinners we've had of late. Actually sat at the dining table (I get these crazy ideas sometimes) and there was pleasant conversation.
Now a question....
Bedtime last night I was a little groany - due to having worked my fast food job. H says "You know you'll feel better when you snuggle up to me."
I told him I'd be ok on my own.
A couple hours later he turned "camel" and inched his way up to me.
I was ALREADY on the edge of the bed. So I just feigned sleep and ignored him.
Should I have done this differently?
Gotta run - gettin' my hair done "I feel pretty, oh so pretty!"
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
