As many of you know, being passive aggressive is one of my problems. This evening W was saying that her back was hurting. I asked her if she wanted me to rub it/look at it. She said no. I said ok and then continued to cook supper. 2-3 minutes later W rolls her eyes. I ask what was she thinking. She said "you are mad". I really wasn't. However I can see why she would say that because of the previous PA nature, that is typically what I would do. Just say ok then be cold and quiet.
How do I get around this? A few days ago something similar happened. I probably should not have but I told her that I am not the enemy and asked her why she looks for the worst in me. She said "I don't". We left it at that.
M 37 W 36 T22 M14 D8 D4 8/2012 distanced BD 11/2012 (likely wants D. Feelings have changed.) W move out date: June 8th.
