This is really petty, H just texted me that it's his friend's birthday today if I wanted to text him happy birthday. He's been living with this friend since he left and he was a part of our family for years. But I reached out to this friend a couple times last fall and it was clear he was not a friend to my marriage. So why did H text me this? I feel like it's a test to see if I'm going to be a bitch or not. Politeness was always very important to H. Should I just eat it and tell him happy birthday and save face with H? When am I going to stop feeling insecure about every single word from H?
