It is extremely hard to live in the same house with him, but I am worried that once he leaves turning back would be even harder. What do you think?
Hi MaL, sorry to hear the sitch you're in. Please take care of yourself first. Read the links in cadets post.
The only thing I'd like to add, is hard as it can be, I truly feel it is better for the marriage if the MLC spouse remains in the home. You just have to learn how to give them LOTS of space. This is what I'm doing with my W, and I have plenty of hope for our future. Keep posting.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
