That's very good advice. I appreciate it. Speaking of RetroV I ended up telling her not to worry about it right now and that I thought it was too soon. I called the people to let them know we wouldn't make it. I could tell she was surprised that I did that. I told her not stress about it right now and just take care of what she needs to
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it