That's very good advice. I appreciate it.
Speaking of RetroV I ended up telling her not to worry about it right now and that I thought it was too soon. I called the people to let them know we wouldn't make it. I could tell she was surprised that I did that. I told her not stress about it right now and just take care of what she needs to


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it