You said you found DB materials too late in your first marriage.

Did you or do you practice the principles now? My guess would be no since you're here. If so, why is that?

What can you do differently now?

How long have you been married to current wife?

How long between first D and 2nd M?

How long were you married the first time?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss