I loved what you had to say about your financial situation!! That was me! Now when I start to feel myself spin when I start to worry about what we are going to do when H's 4 months are up at his apartment, I just tell myself that we will be taken care of.

I really enjoyed the above post about respect. Very timely for me. I definately didn't allow my needs/ self to be respected. I put ithers feeling above mine and/or was mad at them for not just getting my boundaries & respecting me. I am now really working to state my boundaries lovingly & let go of how other people react to those.

Today I'm having to state a big one with my mom. I'm scared. But I respect myself enough today to do what is best for me!

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D