So enjoy the relative calm you have right now. I think b/c of your background (and mine) we tend to expect the other shoe to drop when things are good...like "well, what NOW??"

I think this is so important. For me I've always been suspicious of the good stuff because there was always something bad coming.

But that doesn't have to be the case. Relax and enjoy the good. It's OK.

And now you have the tools to handle the bad stuff.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss