Can you say how you feel without it being a P/A jab at her? Try it out here.

Or maybe you could ask her questions about how she feels about what she's saying. It's hard to say without knowing what it is she's saying to you.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss