I know I need to state my boundaries. Only mY sister knows that he cheated in me more than once. I've kept much from them, but they are mad. I get it. They don't agree with some ways I'm handling this. I refuse to act bitter & angry towards my H. He is the father of my children & I want a good relationship with him for them. The momentary relief of treating him badly won't be worth a strained relationship. They don't think I should have him at the ultrasound, etc.
Im walking this how I am, and they will chose their path. It's really hard for me to "disappoint" people, but I do know today that this boundary is for me. They can judge me if they chose, I'm the one who has to live with my choices. I chose to tell them, so I have to deal.
I really hate being an adult. I've thought more about running away as an adult than when I was a kid...
Sounds like you have a great way of talking with them about where you are. Be firm, yet loving say what you have to then walk around the corner and throw up. It gets a little easier each time you stand up for yourself.
I'm so sorry for your loss, make sure you take time for YOU to grieve the loss of your Grandmother, everyone else can figure themselves out and if they can't "OH WELL". Here is a redneck hug (((((Tallula)))))
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
