Read DR from cover to cover and live it.

Although painful your sitch is much better than most on here as seemingly your partner still wants to be with you.

I'm someone who doesn't believe an affair has to be the end of a marriage - but that's just me personally.

I know it's horrible and painful, but read the book it really will help.

I wish you luck.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013