Originally Posted By: leopoldstotch
Where exactly is he getting beat up? IDK how closely you have been following SM but I've been with him from almost the beginning. Sometimes before accusing people of beating up another person you should be sure that they are beating them up or perhaps trying to movitate them in a different way for a change. Afterall you do know what happens when assume don't you?


wow...Now I am the getting beat up - lol.

I was just asking for some empathy for SM. After all, how far along were we all just a few months into our own marital crisis?

Leopoldstotch - I am not going to engage in an argument with you or anyone else here because that is not what I am here for. I just finished reading a nasty exchange between two fellow DBers and it made me sick to my stomach. Good luck with your approach.


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D