The notion that H and OW didn't get what they wanted out of me by way of reaction, and that they now have to deal with an alternate image of me being detached/non-reactive, is great for my self-esteem.
and this:
They are both spoiling for a fight.
I'm not going to give them that.
YOU control this. Not them. :-)
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
