Everytime I think that I am getting this I see how far I still need to go. But posts like this really help to focus. Thanks. I really appreciate all of your help.

Well I decided not to give her the card. She hasn't mentioned our anniversary so I guess I won't either.

We went to lunch and shopping as a family. Spent most of the day together. She didn't talk to much and I didn't pressure her to do so. Tried to keep it light but friendly. The day overall went ok. I kept trying to do a 180 in my approach. Gotta keep going one day at a time.

Me-47
WAW-42
D-16
S-14
M-22 yrs
T-19 yrs
ILYBNILWY-3 years ago.
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