This reminds me of what MWD says, to reevaluate your sitch. What are you doing that's making her reconsider reconciling? Figure it out! Cuz it's working.
I've thought about this alot and I obviously am working on me but, we have very little contact. When we do speak I am usually calm and have not given her much crap about her decision. I also ask her if she needs anything and I am here if she ever needs to talk. I think the biggest thing is given her space, all the space she needs. This space may even include a divorce, I am prepared for any eventuality.
I am really itching to purchase a motorcycle, I have been cruising the Harley web sites looking and day dreaming. Just another month or two and I'll have enough money for one. Yes I'm going to purchase a gently used one and a cheaper model. I do not want to have buyers remorse later and make a financially bad decision. it is after all my first motorcycle.
You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
