I had my first phone coaching session with Laurie this morning, I highly recommend her, no matter where you are in your situation.
I'm feeling like I really need to move on and get rid of this limbo feeling.
Yesterday I sent an email to H suggesting how I would like to split assets and saying if we could mostly agree then we could use the same lawyer and our tax money. I was very pleasant and asked what he thought. No response yet - he always checks his email
So I'm going to give that til mid week and see if I get a response before I ask if he's seen it and what he thinks.
H is being very nice for the most part, even asked me how my day was yesterday. Weird. Because earlier yesterday he deleted me and most of my family from his FB. Now isn't that grown up lol?
He's still hunting through phone records. This morning I told him I had a meeting with my side business, when I had my phone appointment. He texted during that time and wanted to know about a number and that he assumed it was a guy from work and that I didn't need to lie. Uh what?
It is a guy from work - we mostly talk work but do talk about other things. He's a personal trainer and I've been working out, so sometimes we talk about that. But H says 'non-stop' - uh, no, we had a conversation yesterday and this morning he asked how I was.
Anyway, I'm not sure why he cares anymore. He's the one running around like he's not married.
