You are so right. But it is hard to get out of the mindset. I guess I still do it because I really value the sanctity of marriage and I think that every year is a milestone to be recognized. I don't expect anything from her, I think that I do it for me.
Sigh....
But....
But ???
I can tell you this...
Every time I see the word "but" , I tend to discount everything that precedes it.
I see it as an excuse to not do better.
I would quit smoking, BUT, they still make cigarettes...
If you think in terms of excuses, you allow yourself to live in terms of excuses...
And this in no way de-values how hard what you are going through is.
And I think that you are making it harder on yourself because of "buts" in your thinking
Yea, it's hard to do, hence the "fake it till you make it" mantra incorporated in DB principals.
Make sense ????
Let me try this for you....
Originally Posted By: wolverine1997
You are so right. But it is hard to get out of the mindset. I guess I still do it because I really value the sanctity of marriage and I think that every year is a milestone to be recognized. I don't expect anything from her, I think that I do it for me.
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Originally Posted By: wolverine1997
You are so right. But it is hard to get out of the mindset. I guess I still do it because I really value the sanctity of marriage and I think that every year is a milestone to be recognized. I don't expect anything from her, I think that I do it for me.
