I agree Sub. We do enter this journey with a lot of guilt and, may I add, even shame. I was so embarrassed and felt like such a fool for what had happened in my M that I was apologetic for even breathing sometimes (!). I feel like I can start to "see" more objectively now that my H was not on a pedestal, it was me that put him on it. It made me feel like I was not 'good enough' for him.
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home
