How about a bit more empathy for the guy? Regardless of how big or pervasive his mistakes are, he is human too. What is the goal here? To beat him up to a pulp? To attack him so much that he leaves the boards?
Sometimes when we have nothing good to say it's better to not say anything at all... And perhaps when he sees nobody posting here anymore, SM might decide to go back, re-read and learn from everything he has been told so far.
Not my intentions at all...
I want SM to keep posting, and I want nothing more, than to log in one day, and see a happy , healthy SM posting about his adventures in a mature, healthy relationship. One that COULD be with his current spouse.
And I hope that he chooses to be humble enough to accept the wisdom that has been put in front of him, to maybe help guide him towards that path.
I am merely speaking to SM, man to man , and hoping that he takes something from what I said, to heart. Not for me, rather for himself.
My post to him has zero to do with beating him over the head one more time. And I hope that he doesn't see it that way, and if he does ? Then I apologize for that.
