How about a bit more empathy for the guy? Regardless of how big or pervasive his mistakes are, he is human too. What is the goal here? To beat him up to a pulp? To attack him so much that he leaves the boards?

Sometimes when we have nothing good to say it's better to not say anything at all... And perhaps when he sees nobody posting here anymore, SM might decide to go back, re-read and learn from everything he has been told so far.

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D