SM, your last post in the other thread was so full of mind-reading, snooping and immaturity that I really question if any of this is sinking in with you. Take your newly implemented moderation as a big hint that you need to stop, step back and actually pursue some DB'ing in your life. Detach. Get a life. Quit focusing soooooo much on your W and OM and focus on YOU. Quit talking about all the GAL stuff you're going to start "some day" and do it NOW. Read DR. Develop a list of your 180's. Implement them. Take a few weeks off from here. When you come back, return with a new attitude and spirit. Post your list of 180's. Post a list of the GAL activities that you have ALREADY been pursuing by then. Challenge yourself to not say a word about your W or OM in your posts. Good luck to you.
At this stage I don't believe he's capable of doing that. SM is so wrapped up in his W it's scary. How many months have gone by with no progress on his part? I shudder to think what will happen if/when his W wants to end the M. Clearly this is a man who cannot move on with his life without his W.
M 44 W 43 S 23 S 15 INILWY 9/11 Divorce Mediation started 3/13 June 30 the day W is moving out
