Tori I cannot imagine my H having any grace or dignity when a D were to happen. I see him being exactly the man he has become over the past 2.5 years. Delusional that he is doing the best for his family and putting his kids first while frustrated and angry that he is not getting what he wants, when he wants. I see mostly just selfish, entitled behavior.

I would like to be able to love my H as you described in that quote. I saved it to remind me that that is my aim. Its hard.

I hope you are doing well. (((((((((((((()))))))))))))))


TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home