Of Feral Cats, and All That

[reachingHigher]

MLC is all about finding meaning and purpose.

Yes, I think it's interesting that I'm observing my H moving from finding "meaning and purpose in life" ... to ... "meaning and purpose in HIS life". There is a difference there and I think that it is the thought he can look for this meaning while still not giving up his family he loves dearly. At first, he felt that had to be discarded, but he has embraced the thought that this search can be enhanced by staying married. At least that's what I'm reading from him.

T^2, how is W processing? How are things going?

I read what hrm said about the long term issues. A few convo's I had with my H before we were M came to mind this week. I brought them to his mind and he remembered. He had these issues back then but they were pushed aside for the more urgent callings of getting on with life--getting married, working, having another baby, etc. Now, all these years later it becomes a crisis precipitated by a death in the family.

And what you said to hrm about H not being overly communicative? I think GALBaby is facing the same thing. My H opened up a lot more with the emotional phase he went through....but not so much now. He is looking much more serious but his actions are in the right direction. Or something like that. I needed the encouragement too!

You keep inspiring so many here

Very much so!