I read something today that resonated with me. It was about detachment, and how you should be able to say to your spouse, "I leave you free to think your thoughts, indulge your tastes, follow your inclinations, and behave in ways that you decide are to your liking." If you can say this and mean it, you'll regain the freedom to be happy.
As always, you continue to be a DB rockstar, Tori. Thank you so much for all of your inspiration during this most trying time.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl