Thank you thank you thank you...it is so hard. Finally thought i was past the crying and wanting him still stage and boom...i went right back today. Even though I know I never did anything to deserve what was done to me my H words cut like a knife. He is a textbook case of mlc n yet it gets to me every time. He still goes out once a week n doesn't come home all night n refuses to say where he's been. I will try again to get a life. Not going to ask questions...stop caring n get on w things for my kids sake. As soon as it is feasible i want to separate. I understand what the book says about the spouses that don't stick it out. You have to have skin made of armour to put up with all the mlc person says and does to the lbs.


me-42
H-41
S-12
S-8
M-15 yr
f/o bout OW- 11-29-12
H moved out 10-31-13
Filed for divorce 12-27-13
D- 10-21-14