GTO and Needgrace, thank you for being there for me :-) GTO, I'm almost at the point at which I can say (and mean) the quote to my H. Even though I'm letting him go with love to do whatever he thinks it's right, I still get upset when he does something like post the pix with the other woman on FB or being a jerk about the finances. I guess those things go against my values, so it's about being close to spirit while also remembering we're functioning in a worldly society.
Needgrace, I'm guessing that if the WAS's behave the same way when they have just left the marriage, their behavior will also be similar during the D process. Not fun at all. But it is what we're dealing with now. The most important thing is that we're learning from this experience, unlike most of our S's.
