Thank you. Having a hard day today. STBX returned from China. Reality has hit that the girls and I are going to lose our home(because he insists on selling the house), I just put my 13 year cat down a few days ago, losing my dogs because I have to move and the worse that he just returned visiting his girlfriend.

How come they don't have any consequences for their actions?

Right now, I really don't want to be friendly.

Me: 49
H: 48
Daughters: 22,20,17 & 15
Moved out: 1/12
H filed for divorce: 9/12
OW discovery: 9/12
Finances settled: 2/13
Divorce final: 4/13