Wife received a call at 9.30pm as she slept. I could hear the other guys voice. (She received calls at about the same time on the same day the last 2 weeks so I guess it's when they're meeting)
She spoke to him for about half an hour but, surprisingly, she didn't go out unlike the last 2 times (Maybe she was phased by my being up. The other 2 occasions I was in bed.)
Anyhow I didn't react at all. I didn't confront her or anything. I just said goodnight and kissed her when she went to bed.
I feel proud of my actions (I'm quite the volatile type) and have to snigger a little at her pathetic goings on.
It's a minor victory (of sorts). I'm starting to formulate plans to move forward.
Another thing is my relationship with my children is going from strength to strength. They, on the other hand, hardly listen to my wife which I find both sad (because she is their mother and a fine mother she was too until recently) and justifiable (because she really doesn't have much interest in them at present).
Feeling incredibly positive at the moment. I just hope that it can continue (though I know that there will be blips I just hope that they aren't as long and deep as before).
Thanks to everyone for their support not only to me but to others too. This community is inspiring.
Me: 42 W: 40 M: 18 T: 20 D13 D10 S7 BD: 8/2012 Still living together