Just reading up on your story. Congrats, that she wants to work it out.
I tend to agree with you, although this the worst time of life, it also has been such a growing and learning opportunity. I am so much more self- aware. It has forced me to be aware of what I want and what makes me happy. I agree about having no expectations, it just makes everything so much easier. It takes a long time to get to this place of acceptance, don't you think. Its amazing once you get strong again, how you can have so much control over your own reaction to things.

Good luck on working things out. What do you think triggered her now wanting to work on things?


Me 38 H 39
M13 T18
S6
S9
Bomb Drop 11/11
Moved Out 7/12
Still have hope.
No OW that I know of..