No. I don't want a divorce, But I think I want this to work for the wrong reasons. I can't trust her and I can't fix her. I've had countless therapist tell me that it's not me. Even the marriage counselor we seen had told me unless she goes to individual therapy our marriage will never work. So unfortunately how i'm feeling right now is to throw in the towel, detach go dark. I dropped off the retainer for the lawyer to file for D we'll see if she signs it. Now all i can do put my faith in gods hands and wait for the outcome!


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB