- A lot of resentment for first 10 years of M and resistant to forgive - Afraid of being disappointed again, so resistant to becoming vunerable - Believes once she makes a decision she has to stick with it
Wow, it sounds like your W and mine have the same "Big Book Of Reasons For Divorce". That's practically word for word what my W has told me as well. She repeated that last line often in MC, it was something of a mantra for her. That and "I don't want to try".
Mine too. It is like she is waiting for me to do or say something from the old me (and inevitably I will) and then says, see you haven't changed and I can't trust you!
M46,W41 D16,D18 M22,T25 BD 11/12 W moved out 01/13 Piecing 10/13 Divorced 01/15 "Whether you worry or not has no affect on the outcome. But, moving forward, letting go, and making changes can." UrWorthy
