This was such a tough dynamic for me after BD. My stbx told me she was leaving and moving out but she remained for about 2 months after this and still slept in the same bed.
I thought that ML would be one of the few ways for us to connect and was hopeful that it could be at least a small catalyst that could potentially slow down her crisis train.
The ML was great physically but I could feel her not connecting to me emotionally and I no longer was ok with it.
