I think this was key for me, too!

I did not have the energy to care after BD and it was amazing how everything worked out financially with only one income and without ALL that worry.

Things that seem like negatives sometimes turn into positives.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss