I have always had that same fear with financial security and it grew tons during my M. My W abdicated all the finances to me and I felt tons more fear as it was her security as well as mine that i was now responsible for... it was truly co-d behavior on my part.
I did not have the energy to care after BD and it was amazing how everything worked out financially with only one income and without ALL that worry.
It feels so freeing not to worry. Way to go Bug!
Me(f): 51 W: 41 DP:8 M:3 T:10 "W not happy" 7/11 D final: 8/13
