if you want to goto the playoffs then go! Kids first was my always my rule
FYI. I left 5 counselors who all told me to leave my W! One C handed me a card for a local L. I told her she was crazy and wasn't pro marriage. I actually told another C she wasn't pro marriage and it really hit her hard. I actually told a guy I met at EE about MWD work and to read up on it. He is a big MC in NYC.
YOU DON'T KNOW IF YOUR M IS OVER. You are not a fortune teller. So stop trying to be one.
You need to live in the moment. POWER OF NOW. Eckhart Tolle. Hence my handle. Bond told me to change my handle id from something negative to something positive and I'm glad I did.
Start living in the moment. Your C is going to tell you what you want to hear especially if you are feeding her negative stuff. TRUST me. Your C should be helping you focus on yourself and if she is talking and/or encouraging D I would run very far and fast.
GOOGLE: Law of Attractions. Cliff notes:
If you think you will be D'd you will be D'd. If you think you will be broke, you will be broke. If you think you will have cancer, you will have cancer.
Did you know that the majority of cancer is from holding onto the past and holding onto hurt. Your mind heals if you let it.
You should be meditating and/or doing yoga. You need to move the negative blocked CHI in your system.
Do you know what happens when your body runs out of chi??
DEATH.
Start being positive. Starting living more in the moment. Focus only on you and the kids. Detach in a loving manner. GAL helps you detach
Keep your head up. You are a STRONG lady. Stronger then me