I told him that we are simply "roommates" then - and that he'd be doing his own cooking and laundry etc.
Still insists ow is "just a friend". I presented the following paragraph sent from ow to my h
"You know what .... I am so exhausted that this just mskes me feel like giving up..... "H"... I need you... I want you... I feel so alone right now... Lonely.... I need to sleep ... I need to work out.... "MizJ" is wonderful woman why u dont love her i really wish i knew.... Maybe you do?!!! I love you "
"Oh she's just an emotional person. She just talks like that."
Told me I should have to "drop" all my friends too then.
Told me "getting rid of ow won't fix things"
I said I don't even care about that any more. Said that getting rid of her MIGHT buy him the two years he wants.
Kept calm and cool for about 95% of the conversation.
So it was left that he's "thinking" about it.
OW never called back. OW's H has not contacted me.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
