He has no credit cards.

He uses his biolife money - from donating his plasma.

He has always had me handle all the financials - for instance his paycheck is direct deposited into a checking account he isn't even on. (I personally don't like this for his sake. If I were to suddenly die he'd have to go through channels to access his own money.)

In my opinion, the issues with gambling are "other" than financial. It serves as a distraction so he doesn't have to pay attention to family, spouse or even his "inner demons".


Me 46 H 56
M 22 yrs
S22, D20, Twin Ss18

You teach people how to treat you by what you allow.
What you stop.
And what you reinforce.
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A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.