Say What??

[25yearsmlc]

2,

SO glad he's alright and that your h stepped up.


now do you Remember the hard stuff YOU can do now, which is to

"applaud loudly for the 1% of positives he has done"?. It's not always easy but in this case it just might be.

Sometimes it will be like Mother Teresa hard to do...but I'm telling you it really helps.

Also, what are his love languages? If words of affirmation are among them this is a great opportunity for you to show your appreciation so authentically. It's real. Let him KNOW.

And good for you watching YOUR own behavior...b/c hey, it's all you actuall can control.

When you let the little stuff slide, & don't sweat the small stuff,

you will come to see most stuff IS little and small.

The battles you do pick will be fewer and farther between, we hope!