Still living with him and I haven't seen the kids in a very long time. Few days ago she texted me about something and then I said I hoped she was doing well and asked how the kids were. She told me she and them are well and I just said glad to hear it.
She then said she'd let me know when she could pick up her stuff and thanked me for holding it for her. I just didn't respond.
Then she asked if she had mail here and I said yes and left it someplace for her. She sent me a text thanking me for the mail and I didn't respond.
Came home today and two more pieces of mail. I could just do "return to sender" or "forward to xxxx" since I know where she's been living.
I just was trying to think in DB terms and if my long term goal is to reconcile then maybe I just let the mail issue go. Same with her picking stuff up, it's all in the spare room, attic, and basement, nothing I'm really having to worry about.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
