Hi SB! Congratulations on your baby boy! I'm so happy for you and your daughters too!
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
You're so much more aware and settled in your sitch to enjoy your baby. Thank God for that. Sadly I don't remember much of it since it was around BD :-( So continue to hug your lil one and take LOTS and LOTS of pix! They grow up sooo fast!
About your sitch and interactions with H. Little has a point. Leave it up to God. I know it's hard but don't take his comments personal. You want him to be a part of your son's life. He can continue to be there (not how you would like) but he wants to be involved. Encourage it, don't discourage it.
Also, continue to detach with love. We misinterpret detaching as pushing them off a cliff but it's not like that. If you thought it was a mean comment, it's probably because it was...
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
