Can't believe the therapist discussed insurance issues during the session? Not good practice. Usually this is done on a preliminary phone interview.
And you can't take all of the blame for the problems in the M. Accept what you do or did wrong and focus on that. I bet your W made mistakes too, right? Hard to see right now. But she like u are not perfect. My belief is that the longer an LBS keeps their WAS on a pedestal the longer it takes for the LBS to change, or to live again. It's hard to make changes when your basic needs aren't met (Maslow).
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”