Can't believe the therapist discussed insurance issues during the session? Not good practice. Usually this is done on a preliminary phone interview.

And you can't take all of the blame for the problems in the M. Accept what you do or did wrong and focus on that. I bet your W made mistakes too, right? Hard to see right now. But she like u are not perfect. My belief is that the longer an LBS keeps their WAS on a pedestal the longer it takes for the LBS to change, or to live again. It's hard to make changes when your basic needs aren't met (Maslow).


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden