Thank you, NLW. My H continues showing that he has a lot to learn in life, and to just grow up. I will not talk to him until he's met with a lawyer and has the right information at hand. In a way, it's nice not having to talk to him. Every time I get his emails, my stomach twists--not the best association to have, but this is what his behavior has done to my perception of him.
I read something today that resonated with me. It was about detachment, and how you should be able to say to your spouse, "I leave you free to think your thoughts, indulge your tastes, follow your inclinations, and behave in ways that you decide are to your liking." If you can say this and mean it, you'll regain the freedom to be happy.
