Thanks for your support. It makes it so much easier to keep going along the higher road.
Although I know I've got to ignore their obvious antics and not be sucked in, I still have some sort of primal urge to confront them.
Hearing from you guys makes it so much easier to remember that doing so would be the wrong choice.
I'll take you with me (or at least your words will be ringing in my ears) every time I head out to our village centre.
Been thinking about what I saw yesterday.
It helps me to imagine that STBX actually did not look relaxed. He was leaning back and away from OW. She was acting like a silent movie actress - leaning forward, over-smiling, smirking and gesticulating.
Flapping her mouth like extras do when they're meant to be having a conversation but don't really have anything to say.
Pawing at his leg in an obvious 'show' of ownership. People in solid relationships don't do this.
And the look on STBX's face when I saw it in the rear-view mirror - he looked sad/troubled, maybe even embarrassed.
Anyway, that's just me fantasising about them not being really happy - but it helps!
