Wolverine, I know that the session did not go the way you are hoped.. okay maybe it was a disaster...
.. but growth does happen in our mistakes.
Even if not portrayed the most pleasant of ways, I'm sure your W gave you a ton information about what bothers her in the M...
.. That means there is stuff for you to work on. And she's giving you time to work on it (even if telling herself different)
That my friend.. is a WIN!
Because its not just about following Sandi's rules (although they ARE crucial) it's about addressing your W's issues, validating, and working to change them.
So tell us - what were the complaints said?
From there you can start creating some goals.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.