Patience is a virtue? His thoughts and feelings are valid, even if they are not what you want them to be.
You'll have to wait and see, BRNR. But if it helps, one thing that won't happen is that you'll allow the status quo for the rest of your life. There is a limit to how long that will go on, even if you haven't thought about it. But the limit is further than you'd like to have thought it was, as well.
In other words, don't worry about tomorrow. Let tomorrow worry about itself.
I wasn't asking because of two captains. I was asking if he viewed you, or you viewed you as the "fixer" in the relationship. Or the mother/father in the relationship. Just a curiosity question on my part.
Enjoy the good times, BRNR. Sounds like a lot of good things have been coming your way, and I'd hate to think you're too wrapped up in other things to celebrate.
Peace, AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."