- A lot of resentment for first 10 years of M and resistant to forgive - Afraid of being disappointed again, so resistant to becoming vunerable - Believes once she makes a decision she has to stick with it
Wow, it sounds like your W and mine have the same "Big Book Of Reasons For Divorce". That's practically word for word what my W has told me as well. She repeated that last line often in MC, it was something of a mantra for her. That and "I don't want to try".
