Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Got a question. Which I'm pretty sure I know how to handle it, but wanted some advice anyways.
W is living with MIL and I'm in apartment. She moved into MIL I'm pretty sure for a few reasons. 1. So she wouldn't be lonely 2. To fix up house quicker 3. To sell it
House is hers. Was a gift from her grandmother. So I know she wants to sell it so she can have cash. House worth about 260k and paid off.
So she has mentioned that she would buy a house closer to her barn for horses. Something smaller so she would probably pocket about a 100k and wouldn't have to work for a while.
Here is the thing. She always seems to rush into things and doesnt really think about it before doing it.
Yes it would be closer to her barn, so more convenient for her.
But it means S work have to spend and extra 20 mins in car each way from his school, also be further from school when he is a little older. It would be further from Church and other things(if we were to reconcile)
I'm just frustrated that she would go ahead and sale the house move out there, when she says she wants to work on it together at some point and neither of us know what's going to happen.
So my question is. Should I bring up my concerns at all?
I'm thinking I shouldn't say a word. But just feel like if she does this and then gigs do work out, that we will then have to deal with that.
On another note, I've gone 2 days with no contact other than S talk.
Thanks AS!! I have that graph in my head now and don't want to so go back to beginning. Lol