I am stuck. H wants a divorce and the papers should be signed soon. The book sounds like the divorce isn't finalized I still have a chance, which I don't. OW is still in the pictures.
So I am feeling like a third person reading this book.
Thoughts?
DR is written like it's geared towards married people who are still living together and just hit a bump in the road. But the principals can be used for separated people, people who have never been married and even divorced people. DB'ing is all about attempting to save your marriage by first saving yourself. It shows you how to work on yourself, make yourself into a better person, get your self-confidence and self-esteem back and in the process, hopefully attract your spouse back. Even if you don't get your spouse back, you still emerge a better, stronger, more independent person.
And it's not over until you decide it's over. Couples have reconciled even after divorce.
